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Of course, if you've been following The Rules (the set of dating guidelines outlined in our book, The Rules: Time Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr.Right, Warner Books, 1995) from the moment you met Mr.He says all the usual stuff, I don’t have time, I’m too busy, I don’t want a relationship with anyone blah blah blah – and I believed him – until – 2 weeks ago when I found out that when we were broken up last year for 4 months, he joined a dating agency, paid 00 for a 6 month membership, went on dates with 6 girls, went on 2nd dates with each of them, he wanted more from them but they didn’t want him – ha ha.I also found out that he wanted somebody younger, and he wants to have more kids ( I knew that) but he wants children with someone who doesn’t already have kids.

I don’t cook for him, have sex with him, help him with his problems etc etc. He woke up this morning at 6am and tried to leave at 6.30am (Sunday) I wasn’t happy of course and let him know it. Boo hoo – he’s had it too good for too long – he’s been spoiled. He has his own business & does very well financially with that, he is a very good devoted father and has other good qualities.

People who are ‘drivers’ have their own agenda but have a tendency to assume that what they determine the agenda to be is a ‘joint agenda’ – i.e what they need, the other needs.

Once there is one person asserting their agenda (the driver), the other person becomes a ‘passenger’, someone who is either passively being swept along on the ride and then possibly wakes up to what’s going on and belatedly tries to assert themselves or, they know which journey they’re on and have decided it suits them for now but hope to ‘change’ the driver’s mind and direction at another point.

He came over last night, annoyed that I hadn’t organized dinner (do you believe? When we went to bed he tried to have sex with me & I said no – nicely. I said give me what I want & I’ll give you what you want. And I kept saying you know what I want (he knows I want a relationship). I have looked after him & his children, done everything – and two years on and no commitment in sight. I have decided that if doesn’t commit to me by the end of May I am going to move away and I have told him that I am going to move away but he doesn’t know when. Kind regards A Loyal Reader ******* Hi Loyal Reader – First of all – let me commend you and say that you are on the right track with this.

He won’t commit to you, so it is perfectly fair for you to withhold sex from him and make yourself unavailable for the creature comforts he is looking for.

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