Dating a man twenty years older
However, I've come to realize that such thoughts, while they There is no order in which things are "supposed" to happen just because my husband and I are of a certain age.After all, how many of us have witnessed the death of a loved one "before their time," the birth of a child by an "older" woman, or a person winning a marathon at an age that defies what's typical?If life goes as it usually does, he'll be retired while I'm still working.If life moves forward like it should, I might be caring for both my husband and my mother at the same time, since they're close in age.
After politely playing 20 questions with Sue about my new boyfriend, I knew this was the one she was getting at.You might love his deep pockets, but with his great power comes your vulnerability.There is potential that you could never be financially equal to him, accepting this is key. I've seen this so many times , usually the girls get over him and move on , and they stay the same going fromone to another. I'm sorry to say but I don't think it can work out long term if a guy is almost twice your age. My bf dated a girl half his age for 3 years , now I'm with him and I know he clearly has commitment issues. Another time he was with women twice his age when he was in his 20s.