Dating a thirty year old man
Strange isnt' it that most might think it odd for an 18/30 dating combination, but say take 3 years off each for a 14/27 yr combination and you've got a child molesting pervert on your hands. It isn't illegal, so I really should keep my nose out of it, unless the 18 year old is my child & the 30 year old is a total loser, drugs or criminal or abusive, etc. I guess that means maturity levels balance out in time? I don't think its 'appropriate' but this is only my point of view.They are established homeowners who are living in a place that is welcoming to a partner.
(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.
Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days.
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.
So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.
A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.