Dating someone you know already
Well, I'm good at the actual dating part of the bit, but I'm not so good at sticking it out for longer than the second I realize she's not the one.I have a difficult time understanding how other people manage to date people they know they aren't going to share their lives with. He already knows the reasons you are sometimes a super-sad pile of anxiety. So your dad cheated on your mom and now you occasionally ask suspicious questions because you know with every part of your weird little heart that he wouldn't cheat on you but you're still terrified?Your issues aren't going to blindside him on the sixth date. So you (I) start writing weird songs about space travel when you're tired, then start laughing for no reason and seem drunk but aren't? Part of the reason he loves you (me) is because you are (I am) a genuine, grade-A weirdo. You will never have that moment where you're like, "Oh, that sex was fun but now WTF are we supposed to talk about? " Look, I don't have a lot of post-sex grass convos, but you know what I mean. He knows why and answers them and kisses you on the forehead, and then you just just chill and eat nachos.5. You can tell him anything that makes you nervous or sad or scared or super-happy, and he will never judge you for your emotions. You don't need to awkwardly pry for info on his past relationships. You already know why sometimes he is a ridiculous person you kind of want to punch.If anything, you're extra-careful with each other because this person already matters so much. It's like a cute, little, protective shell over your "shut up already" happy little romance. Mine has glitter rainbows on it and smells like roses. However if you’re focusing all your energies into this one person, but they’re dating around, you might be in for a disappointment.
You've already fallen in love with each other as friends,m and it was hilariously easy and happened without you even trying. So actually falling in love with them as a best friend is mostly worry-free intimacy, high fives, and legit great sex.10.
We’ve put together 5 essential questions to ask yourself, to find out if you really should be dating someone who’s seeing other people. Do you focus on each prospect before deciding they’re not right, or do you always have one eye on the rest of the field?
Maybe you’re actively dating other people, and if this is the case then as long as you’re all honest with each other, then there should be no real issues.
The point is: Dating someone you know isn't right for you is honestly a waste.
Yes, it's nice to have sex with the same person and not have to worry about catching anything.