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But there is more to a bodybuilder than just the weights.In fact, many bodybuilders will tell you that, as they journey through their bodybuilding lives, the things they do and learn along the way can be directly related and applied to many aspects of their lives. Many of you have probably never exclusively thought about dating a bodybuilder.I figured I could learn from it, get better at charming women, even simply speaking to them.That's how miserable I was at dating then, thinking I might absorb something for my own benefit.Imagine yourself entering the gym and deciding to lift some weights.As you take in your surroundings, breathing in that distinct scent of the weight room amongst the constant banging and clinking of weights, you start to take note of the diversity of the people around you.His muscles are clearly defined and proportional, he has a lot of size but is also shaped in a kind of streamlined way and he lifts with an intensity that’s different from those around him.
You find yourself wondering, what is the draw of having such simplistic desires involving something that requires so much hard work that is less than fun?And when I did get up the nerve to ask a woman out to dinner, it was generally driven by a hazy enough mixture of lust and expectation that I myself couldn't tell up from down — that is, whether I was dating up or down. I once went to dinner with the Miss Alabama runner-up. So I was wildly attentive, hyper-aware of who was watching us, and snaky with my coolness.Another time, I had three drinks with a Division-I cheerleader. Which never really amounted to much, because I left the date that night — or the bedroom sometime later — feeling like I'd been acknowledging only a favor with all my energies. You have to give the higher ground to that which you desire. Never assume you are better possessed than the person you have nudged out into the world with you. I learned this at every date since the bar, and certainly at every not-date with the beautiful women I have had the pleasure of taking out professionally since then — Halle, Charlize, Brooklyn (although she took me out): Up.Back when I tended bar, I often served couples, obviously on their first date, as they waited for a table.I took care of them, the way a bartender does, and then retreated to wipe down a highball or cut limes, assessing, all by my lonesome, how the date was going.